Why I’ve decided to agree that 2 + 2 = 5

You know how it is in India — whether it’s a roadside chai stall, a train journey, or a family gathering, someone always wants to argue about something. Politics, cricket, Bollywood, or even how chai should be made — there’s no topic too small for a heated debate.

This year, I’ve decided I’m not playing along.

When someone insists that 2 + 2 equals 5, I’m just going to smile, nod, and say, “Haan bhai, sahi bola (Yes, you’re absolutely right).”

Why?

Because peace of mind is priceless, and I’ve finally understood the power of letting go.

The Chaotic Classroom of Life
Growing up, I was the kind of person who loved correcting people. If someone said something incorrect, I’d jump in faster than a teacher with a red pen.

I thought it was my duty to educate the world.

But life is not a classroom.

People don’t ‘always’ want to learn — they want to win.

I realized this after one too many arguments with uncles at weddings, neighbours in WhatsApp groups, and even strangers on Twitter.

No matter how logical or factual my points were, nobody was ever convinced. And worst of all, it left me mentally drained and irritated.

It hit me — peace is not about proving you’re right; it’s about knowing when to walk away.

Saving My Energy for What Matters
In our desi culture, we’re surrounded by “gyanis” (self-proclaimed experts). From relatives giving unsolicited career advice to neighbors sharing conspiracy theories, everyone has something to say.

This year, my mantra is simple: conserve energy.

In India, we have a saying: Log kya kahenge? (What will people say?) For years, this phrase ruled my life.

I cared too much about what others thought and felt the need to correct them when they were wrong.

But now, I’ve flipped the script. Log kuch bhi kahen, mujhe kya? (People can say whatever they want — why should I care?)

Letting people be themselves, even when they’re wrong, is liberating. It’s not my job to change anyone’s beliefs. My only job is to protect my peace.

The moment I stopped worrying about proving my point, I felt lighter. Life isn’t about convincing everyone to see things your way. It’s about focusing on what makes you happy.

I’ve learned that peace comes from within, not from winning arguments or proving someone wrong . By minding my own business, I’ve reclaimed my time, energy, and sanity.

I’m not giving up on truth; I’m choosing to prioritize my mental well-being.

After all, in a country as lively and opinionated as ours, peace isn’t about being right — it’s about knowing when to say, “Haan bhai” and move on.

Here’s to a year of fewer arguments, more smiles, and the ultimate power move: not caring.